In vino, veritás

"Toda a boa ação será castigada" Ralph J

"Obrigada não, são 5€"

A Luísa acredita que as pessoas mudam. A sua avó costumava dizer, "quando batem à porta não perguntamos "quem foi?", perguntamos quem é". 

Defende também que "Ainda precisamos de viver algumas mundanices". Achei uma forma eloquente de o dizer. Fomos sair para o Sabotage, bebemos vinho branco e dançámos.

Enquanto ele cria uma vida sem mim
Eu crio uma vida com a sua ausência,
São coisas opostas.

"Vale um sabor a casa"

I know what you mean, last week my feelings were hurt by something you said before, that I don't know what it's like to loose something (...) I caught myself thinking about it over and over, and then I realized that I was simply remembering it as something that was wrong with me. That was the story I was telling myself, that I was somehow inferior. Isn't that interesting? The past is just a story we tell ourselves.

- Filme "Her"

[Tocou-me, fez-me pensar em como aqueles momentos que nos magoam mas que escolhemos relembrar over, and over again talvez estejam a reforçar imagens negativas que temos de nós próprios.]

“In the end, people don't view their life as merely the average of all its moments—which, after all, is mostly nothing much plus some sleep. For human beings, life is meaningful because it is a story. A story has a sense of a whole, and its arc is determined by the significant moments, the ones where something happens. Measurements of people's minute-by-minute levels of pleasure and pain miss this fundamental aspect of human existence. A seemingly happy life maybe empty. A seemingly difficult life may be devoted to a great cause. We have purposes larger than ourselves.”

― Atul Gawande, Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End

" Fim de boca médio, frutado e ligeiramente tostado. Pouco amarga"

(Because I'm fancy like that)